Mary Matilda Howard 66, of Portsmouth, passed away February 16, 2019. Cremation Society of Virginia (Chesapeake Office) is handling the arrangements.
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left a message on February 25, 2019:
Mary Matilda "Tillie" Howard
Gray Court - Mary Matilda "Tillie" Howard, 66, of 39 Kennedy Rd, died February 16 in Portsmouth, VA.
Born in Greenville to Sybil Howard, she was adopted by the late John Ernest and Dessie Seigler of West Pelzer.
She is survived by daughter, Angelia Beaman Wood of Gray Court; son, Freddy Center of Clinton; Dawn Prince of Pensacola, FL; brother, John Ernest Seigler, Jr., of Honea Path; and brother, Sammy Seigler, of Beaufort; five grandchildren; and six great-grandchildren.
Memorial service will be led by Pastor Payne at 2:30 pm on Sunday, February 24th, at Rabun Creek Baptist Church,17045 SC-101 in Gray Court followed by Celebration of her life reception.
left a message on February 25, 2019:
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left a message on February 25, 2019:
My Eulogy for Mama Mary Howard at her memorial service February 24, 2019 @ Rabun Creek Baptist Church, Gray Court, SC
"1st before I begin I made a mistake in the memorial bulletins and spelt Teressa's name wrong... It should have 2 s's and I am very sorry for that mistake Mama Mary & Teressa.
As Mary's only daughter-in-law I wanted to speak at her memorial today and hope I do her proud.
As I started to gather my thoughts of what I wanted to say today it was hard to figure out where to begin. After all how do I wrap the 19 years I have known Mama Mary into a few moments. Truth be told neither I nor anyone else, could ever possibly share a story like Mama Mary could. She could keep you on the tips of your toes and the edge of your seat with the most elaborate details.
When people think of mother-in-laws a lot of thoughts come to mind that are not flattering. So I googled 'mother in law.' What I found were links to mother in law jokes, an ad for a therapist "Got Mother InLaw Problems?" and I couldn't help but laugh because i didnt have those kind of problems with my mother inlaw. Mama Mary was different. The day I wed her son I was family, not an outsider period end of story. She gave us space and always supported our relationship, thoughts and ideas. She was a 2nd mom to me. Truly of all the years I can only recall one time I had to draw the line in the sand and tell her NO! I would not wear her perfume no matter how much my hubby loved it I did not want to smell like his mother...
I remember the very first time I met my future mother in law. It was at my daughter's swim meet. Mama Mary took my hand and told me she loved me because her son loved me and that she would until the end of time. We were not engaged yet so I thought those were some pretty powerful words for the time but now know they were true and she kept her word.
Mama Mary had a huge heart and a caring spirit. She was always there for me and comforted me when I lost my mom last spring. As loving as she was she did have that don't mess with me way about her especially when it came to her family to which she was fiercely loyal and protective of.
All families have issues and this one is no different but Mama Mary is our common link and today is only about her and how we remember her. When my Aunt died I learned the greeks have an expression that translates roughly to " May her memory live forever" and that is my prayer for Mama Mary.
To the family here my Love, Freddy, Marlene the sister I gained in marriage, my daughter, Sarah and my beautiful nieces, great nephew and Uncle John, Mama Mary's brother please know that I share in your loss and know she is finally at rest. Although we all wish she was still with us It is indeed a blessing to know she's now in heaven watching over us.
I conclude with thanking Mama Mary for the family she created and the boy she raised to manhood for me to marry.
Yes, Mama Mary I am indeed wearing your perfume today and am proud to honor you!"
left a message on February 21, 2019:
I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your loved one. When someone we love dies, it’s natural to want to see that person again. God promises us that He will comfort us in our trials if we go to him in prayer. 2 Corinthians 1:3 calls him the God of all comfort. I’d like to share with y’all this link that shows 12 steps on coping with grief that is good for sharing. I have personally found this very comforting and I hope y’all do as well. https://www.jw.org/finder?wtlocale=E&docid=102018086&srcid=share
left a message on February 19, 2019:
She was a good friend of mine she will be missed
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
left a message on February 18, 2019:
So sorry for your loss.
May God comfort your hearts.
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Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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